Isn't it obvious?

So clearly, girls just aren't obvious enough for boys to pick up on their little subtle hints. I mean, if a girl likes a boy, she texts him, hangs out with him and their friends, suggests that just the two of them should go and do things together. However, boys are just too dense. I mean, come on, those hints and they way we look at you should be enough for you to know what we are interested. When we text you and ask you what you are doing, that generally means we want to do something with you. When we sit next to you and lean in and leave our hand sitting on our leg, that generally means we want you to hold our hand. Isn't it obvious?

"if holding hands is too discrete

let's make out in the middle of the street

If this flowery just ain't enough for you

Help me God, tell me what to do

Couldn't be more true

Isn't it obvious that I love you?"

~erik hassle "isn't it obvious"

All in all, this needs to be a two way street. Us girls need to know what to do to let you fellas see what we are thinking and feeling and boys, step it up, be a man and do something about it. And please don't suggest that we just need to talk about it, DTR, that really stands for destroy the relationship not determine. It generally makes things awkward, there can be a time and place for such a thing but thats a rarity.

So boys, tell me, now is your chance, what do you want a girl to do when she is interested? It's not that easy to just come out and tell you what we are thinking and feeling, you should understand, it's not that often that you ask a girl on a date. It's that whole fear of rejection idea (cop out answer, but still, it's the truth). Girls as a whole need to know the answer to this unsolved question, what can we do to let the boy know we are interested? We apparently are not obvious enough and need to step up our game.